Every day, you see young students arrive enthusiastically for private lessons in your music school. During recitals and showcases, they perform with confidence and poise. Adult students, on the other hand, approach you with caution, if not trepidation, inquiring “for a friend” about music lessons. Why is this, and what can be done to help?
One common reason adults fear learning a musical instrument is because of a long-ago negative experience. An adult student of mine recounted that in fourth grade, in front of everyone, her choir teacher told her she was tone-deaf. She was not on